Rabu, Februari 18, 2009

I CAN NEVER ASK FOR MORE

Gazing at the stars in a dark cold night
Uttering sweet words beneath pale moonlight
I wish you can see I wish you can hear
I wish you can kiss and hold me tight

I close my eyes and shed those tears
Thinking how far you are from me
Then I look above and see the stars
How they light, they glitter and sparkle

Despite how far they are by sight
I find myself smiling as I realize
That though distance between us
Kept us apart but only in body
And never in heart

You gave me reason to smile
You gave me reason to hope
You gave me so much and
I can never ask for more
And if I have one thing to thank right now
That's when you came into my life!

Mulianya Seorang Isteri Disisi Allah…






Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka…..

Beruntungnya seorang wanita yg ada rahim ini ialah dia bekerja dengan Tuhan… sebagai pengeluar ‘ manusia.

Tiap-tiap bulan diberi cuti bergaji penuh… 7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.

Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari. Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah.

Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang.. .sembahyang wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya. Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita, Sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya, Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis.

Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa perlu takut nak melahirkan anak? Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah. Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap mati syahid, Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga. Untuk orang kafir dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran siksa kubur.

Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami seluruh kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung. Diakhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra yang banyak diaterima diatas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari. Contohnya bila dia redho suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Alah keatasnya jua..

Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa suaminya, jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.Didunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.

Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut,mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini.

Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat didalam dan diluar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain..

Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka denganNya.

Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki.Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki,juga bukan dari tapak kaki.Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu(lelaki), lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita,dekat dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.

Woman was made from the rib of man, She was not created from his head to top him, Nor form his feet to be stepped upon, She was made from his side to be close to him, From beneath his arm to be protected by him, Near his heart to be loved by him.

Love Facts

[1] Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.

[2] Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.

[3] Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.

[4] Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself.

[5] If somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love.

[6] It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.

[7] It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.

[8] Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.

[9] Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability. [

10] Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated.

My L.O.V.E story...

My mind is often drifting,
to the memories of our past,
so with a tear I’m wondering,
why u let it go so fast..

A million tears have fallen,
for the pain u caused within,
and I have no strength at all,
with the state u left me in...

Unto diz day i love u,
but these words u will ignore,
to you I’m just ur memory,
of our love dat is no more..

I'm guess I’m sound pathetic,
but one thing's more than true,
baby I’ll be holding on,
'cause I’m still in luv with u..

What if we were wrong about each other..
What if u were really meant for me..
What if we were supposed to be together..
Would that not mean anything??

20 FAKTA LAKI POMPUAN

1. Lelaki melakukan lebih banyak dari apa yang dapat dilakukan perempuan, sedang perempuan melakukan apa yang lebih banyak dari apa yang berani dilakukan lelaki.

2. Lelaki dikenal dari apa yang tidak dilakukannya, dan perempuan dikenal dari apa yang dia lakukan.

3. Dalam hubungan cinta, lelaki berbangga dengan kemenangannya meraih perempuan, sedang perempuan berhias dengan ketaklukannya di hadapan lelaki. Lelaki berbangga dengan mengatakan, "Aku telah menaklukan perempuan A, B, dan C.." dan perempuan berbangga dengan mengatakan, "Aku telah menolak lelaki A, B, dan C…"

4. Kebahagiaan di sisi lelaki adalah suksesnya dalam pekerjaan, sedang bagi perempuan adalah suksesnya bersama lelaki.

5. Dibalik setiap perempuan yang sukses terdapat cinta yang gagal, dan dibelakang setiap lelaki yang sukses terdapat perempuan yang mencintai.

6. Yang terakhir mati pada lelaki adalah hatinya dan pada perempuan adalah lidahnya. Lidah lelaki bagaikan pisau, sedang lidah perempuan seperti pedang.

7. Semua jenis pujian menggetarkan hati perempuan, tetapi tidak semua pujian menyentuh hati lelaki.

8. Perempuan membinasakan akal lelaki, sedang lelaki meremukkan hati perempuan.

9. Harapan lelaki kiranya menjadi keras bagaikan es, sedang harapan perempuan menjadi air lalu menguap seperti udara.

10. Mudah bagi lelaki menutup matanya, tetapi mustahil bagi perempuan menutup telinganya.

11. Dahulu orang berkata, "Tiga sifat lelaki yang terbaik namun itulah yang terburuk buat perempuan. Tiga sifat itu adalah berani, rendah hati dan tangan terbuka. Tiga sifat terbaik perempuan namun itulah yang terburuk buat lelaki adalah tinggi hati, sangat hati-hati dan tangan tertutup."

12. Lelaki memahami apa yang dia dengar, sedang perempuan mendengar apa yang dia tidak pahami

13. Ketika lelaki merasa jemu, maka dia membutuhkan seseorang yang mendorongnya agar ia maju ke depan. Ketika perempuan merasa jemu, maka dia membutuhkan seseorang yang menopangnya dari belakang agar ia tidak terjatuh.

14. Lelaki sering kali tidak mengetahui kapan mengucapkan kata perpisahan bagi perempuan, sedang perempuan sering kali tidak mengetahui kapan dia harus berpisah.

15. Lelaki cepat jatuh cinta, sedang perempuan lebih cepat membenci.

16. Perempuan lebih senang menikah dengan lelaki yang kaya walau banyak bicara daripada yang pendiam tapi miskin. Sedang lelaki lebih senang menikah dengan perempuan yang pendiam walau miskin, dari pada kaya tapi banyak bicara.

17. Kalau dua orang lelaki bertengkar, maka sering kali penyebabnya adalah perempuan, sedang bila dua orang perempuan bertengkar, maka biasanya penyebabnya juga perempuan..

18. Lelaki menangis atas apa yang hilang darinya, sedang perempuan menangis atas apa yang tidak diperolehnya.

19. Lelaki letih mencari ketenangan, sedang perempuan tidak tenang kecuali dengan mencari keletihan.

20. Lelaki dicipta dari tanah dan perempuan dari tulang, karena itu perempuan lebih kuat daripada lelaki dan kekuatannya terletak pada kelemahannya...

WHY MAN NEEDS INSURANCE











Love Attitude Number

To find your love attitude number, add your birth month and your birthdate together. Keep reducing it until it's a single digit.

Example:-

January 28 1+28 2+9 1+1=2; you’re 2.
November 20 11+20 3+1=4; then you’re 4.

One
You are charming imaginative and independent. Usually your style is ahead of others'; you know what's in and what way is out. Sometimes you're a little too aggressive when it comes to pursuing a love interest. You have a way of drawing attention wherever you go, and this dramatic flair usually attracts the strongest guys. Your competitive nature either draws or repels guys/gals...but those who can't handle your power aren't your types anyway. At times you can be possessive, manipulating and demanding with your friends and in love relationships. You like guys/gals with lots of intelligence...and knock-'em-dead good looks don't hurt either.

Two

Your love nature is sentimental, romantic and kind. Youreasygoing,mild manner allows almost everyone to feel very comfortable with you - especially shy guys/gals. Your modesty and tact enable you to get along easily with both sexes. You are a natural peacemaker and can be very persuasive with words, which helps you to gain the espect of your classmates. You can also be too sensitive at times, and your greatest drawback is a lack of confidence to stand up for yourself in conflict. Your favorite type of guy is a gentle, affectionate one who is also strong and playful. A great sense of humor is also a must. A guy/gal who loves to listen to music and dance should rank high favorites too.

Three

You are imaginative, fun loving, thrill seeking and expressive. You're so charming that you attract many friends and you are almost never lacking guys/gals. In your earlier years, you maybe totally shy and lose those qualities in the high-school years. You can be sort of vain or even a bit of a show-off when you get caught up in exciting events in your life, but you usually redeem yourself in some playful way before you lose a friend. Jealousy shows its ugly head sometimes, but generally you aren't it. In the guy department, you prefer the athletic or artistic types. You're in absolute heaven when you find both of those qualities in the same guy. When you're looking for love, a guy who can make you laugh scores points, big time!

Four

You tend to be loyal, dedicated and good-hearted. You're one of diligent students when you really try, and you tend to make your schoolwork a priority. You also express those same qualities in your love relationship. No one is more faithful and trusting than you are. In fact, those tendencies can be a little negative in your romantic life. You may sometimes hang on too long to a guy/gal who doesn't respect the love you deserve. You can be stubborn a bit but you can usually dig yourself out of that hole just in time to stay out of major trouble. Usually fall for extremes when choosing a love mate - he/she may be a teacher's pet. Whatever the type, it helps if he/she is good-looking, too, but that's not a major consideration for you.

Five

Your love attitude is adventurous, charismatic and spontaneous. You're creative and adaptable, and you can come up with the most exciting and sometimes daring things to do. Your quick intelligence and way with words help get you out of the problems that come with being flirtatious and playing hard to get. You need to pay for your personal values because you love to try new things and the crowd and the consequences can put extra strain on your relationship with guys who have great bodies and good looks, along with exceptional brain and high grades. It helps if they are highly athletic or involved in as many otherwise you might get bored! Variety is the key to your love attitude number.

Six

You are warm, loving, devoted and affectionate. Your outgoing, thoughtful nature attracts many guy/girlfriends to you, and usually some of the nicest guys/girls too. Because of your need to care, you can end up in a relationship that requires too much care taking to make it balanced. Since home and family play important roles in your life, you are unlikely to be attracted to guys/gals who your parents wouldn't like. Sometimes slight jealous streak...but it doesn’t last long. Some people with this love attitude number are prone to making harsh judgments of others, especially values. You are especially attracted to the good looking, boy-next-door type who is smart as well as a gentleman.

Seven

Your love nature is thoughtful, poetic, mystical and mysterious. A few people with love attitude number seven are class clowns, and they usually attract guys/gals who like to be given a hard time. But most of you are the quiet, reserved types who dislike calling attention to yourself. Your type generally attracts guys who feel the same way you do. Your refined, independent and secretive nature is very alluring to certain can also be somewhat. Faultfinding and a little demanding in your love relationship and with friends. You are mostly attracted to guys/gals who aren't like all the rest; a loner easily attracts you. And, if he/she reads a lot and enjoys learning, he/she is especially perfect for you.

Eight

Your love attitude is confident, powerful and exciting. This number usually makes for a very conscientious student, someone who puts schoolwork ahead of a social life. However, you also enjoy being a leader among your classmates and will seek offices or other positions that enable you to use your. you can be somewhat intimidating tocertain guys/gals. You can also be a little too intense, bossy and jealous for your own good. Your love match is definitely someone who is smart, handsome and popular. You like quality over quantity and will usually wait until the guy/gal with the best comes along.

Nine

You have a sophisticated attitude that is also generous and considerate. Your responsible, charitable nature may find you attracting guys/gals who want someone to confide in or secure. At a very young age, you developed the type of personality that makes others feel safe and protected. You will into your adult years and, down the road, you'll be a good mom because of them. On the negative side, you can be argumentative and overly emotional, and you usually possess a temper that can make everyone run for cover. You like the kind of guy/gal who is responsible and impeccably dressed and has gorgeous eyes and a great body. Charm, wit and (of course) brilliance could make him the perfect guy/gal for you.

How to say I LOVE YOU in 100 Languages !!!

1. Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
2. Albanian - Te dua
3. Arabic - Ana behibak (to male) Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
4. Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
5. Bambara - M'bi fe
6. Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
7. Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
8. Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
9. Bulgarian - Obicham te
10. Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
11. Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
12. Catalan - T'estimo
13. Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
14. Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
15. Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
16. Creol - Mi aime jou
17. Croatian - Volim te
18. Czech - Miluji te
19. Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
20. Dutch - Ik hou van jou
21. English- I Love You
22. Esperanto - Mi amas vin
23. Estonian - Ma armastan sind
24. Ethiopian - Afgreki'
25. Faroese - Eg elski teg
26. Farsi - Doset daram
27. Filipino - Mahal kita
28. Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
29. French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
30. Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
31. Georgian - Mikvarhar
32. German - Ich liebe dich
33. Greek - S'agapo
34. Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
35. Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
36. Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi
37. Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female) Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
38. Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
39. Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
40. Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
41. Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
42. Hungarian - Szeretlek
43. Icelandic - Eg elska tig
44. Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
45. Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
46. Inuit - Negligevapse
47. Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
48. Italian - Ti amo
49. Japanese - Aishiteru
50. Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
51. Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
52. Kiswahili - Nakupenda
53. Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
54. Korean - Sarang Heyo
55. Latin - Te amo
56. Latvian - Es tevi miilu
57. Lebanese - Bahibak
58. Lithuanian - Tave myliu
59. Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
60. Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
61. Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
62. Marathi - Me tula prem karto
63. Mohawk - Kanbhik
64. Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
65. Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
66. Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
67. Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
68. Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
69. Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
70. Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
71. Persian - Doo-set daaram
72. Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
73. Polish - Kocham Ciebie
74. Portuguese - Eu te amo
75. Romanian - Te ubesk
76. Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
77. Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
78. Serbian - Volim te
79. Setswana - Ke a go rata
80. Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')
81. Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
82. Sioux - Techihhila
83. Slovak - Lu`bim ta
84. Slovenian - Ljubim te
85. Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
86. Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
87. Swedish - Jag alskar dig
88. Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
89. Tagalog - Mahal kita
90. Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
91. Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
92. Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
93. Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
94. Thai - Chan rak khun (to male) Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
95. Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
96. Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
97. Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
98. Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male) Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu
99. Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
100. Yoruba - Mo ni fe